THE PLANNING LIBRARY

Twenty years of hospitality & running events, written down. These are the same checklists, buying math, and timelines I use with my own clients, built for the people doing it themselves. Download once, use it until the day.

THE PRIVATE PROPERTY WEDDING CHECKLIST
$20.00

So the wedding is happening at your place.

Hosting a wedding on your own property is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give, and one of the easiest to underestimate. Tents, power, water, septic, parking, permits, and a lawn that has to look perfect on one specific Saturday. Miss one detail and it gets expensive fast.

This checklist is the exact process a professional wedding planner runs before any tent goes up on private land, organized into a 12-month countdown so nothing surprises you.

Inside the 14-page guide:

  • A month-by-month timeline from the first tent company site visit to day-after restoration

  • Land and landscaping: grading, mowing schedules, drainage, and pathways

  • Power, water, restrooms, and septic, including what never gets staked

  • Permits, insurance, and the neighbor conversations worth having early

  • Parking, deliveries, lighting, and safety

  • The final walkthrough every host should run the week of

Written by a Vermont wedding planner who specializes in private estate and tented celebrations. Get the planner’s brain without the planner’s fee, and be a guest at your own celebration.

Instant digital download. Printable PDF, designed to live on a clipboard.

THE GROOM’S 60-DAY COUNTDOWN
$20.00

Sixty days. Run like a professional.

Nobody hands a groom a plan. He gets asked a hundred questions, handed a suit, and told to show up. This is the plan.

The 60-Day Countdown is a day-by-day field guide for the final stretch, built so you do the right thing on the right day in the right order. It comes with a tracker: enter your wedding date once and every task date fills in automatically, ready to drop into your phone calendar.

Inside the 14-page guide:

  • A week-by-week countdown from day 60 through the morning after

  • The money map: every remaining balance, due date, and tip envelope, handled early so the final week is calm

  • Attire, groomsmen, rings, and the lead times that catch men out

  • Vows, toast, photo shot list, and first dance, with time to practice

  • The final seven days broken out day by day, as seven host disciplines

  • A wedding-day page whose only job is keeping you present

  • The companion calendar tracker, yours to copy and edit

Written by a professional wedding planner with twenty years in hospitality, who has watched a lot of grooms arrive at Saturday with nothing left to decide. That is the whole point.

Instant digital download. PDF plus editable tracker.

THE HOME BAR PROGRAM
$20.00

Pour like a professional at your own party.

Running your own bar saves real money and lets you serve exactly what you love. It also fails in predictable ways: warm wine, a line ten people deep, and a host who spends the night restocking coolers. This guide is the difference.

Written by a Level 1 Sommelier with twenty years in luxury hospitality, The Home Bar Program walks you through the entire bar, from the shopping list to the last call.

Inside the 12-page guide:

  • The buying math: exactly how much wine, beer, and spirits to buy for your guest count, with a worked example

  • The equipment that earns its place, plus the honest answer on glassware versus disposables and which plastics actually look elegant

  • A sommelier’s four-bottle wine framework and a pairing table for every menu, from barbecue to raw bar

  • Five signature cocktail recipes, three mocktails, and the batching math to make them by the dispenser

  • Setup, staffing, and safety standards so the evening runs itself

Whether it’s a wedding weekend, a milestone birthday, or a backyard dinner for forty, this is how you host a bar people remember while you actually enjoy the party.

Instant digital download. Printable PDF with a master shopping list.

Wedding Planning Guides & Checklists